"This is a compelling story for all caregivers to read. The author, Frank Fuerst, recounts his journey as a caregiver
for his wife June for a total of 17 years, from diagnosis of early onset Alzheimer's. It is truly a story of love and perseverance.
Frank breaks his caregiving into 4 phases, not in terms of medical stages, but from his perspective as caregiver. His 4 cornerstones
of survival are key for any caregiver! Throughout the book, he shares what to expect, lessons learned, helpful products, and
how he changed as a result of his years caring for June. Frank focuses on the practical, the emotional and the spiritual.
His introspective style will help any struggling caregiver deal with their challenges in a positive, take-action way. It's
definitely a book I'll be recommending to others. In fact, I am using the book in my upcoming presentation ('Caring for the
Caregiver') to a group of Stephen ministers."
D.C. (Indiana)
"Our local library received a grant and bought ten books on Alzheimer's. I sat at the library and thumbed through all
of them. Only two books appeared to be useful. Your book was so-o good, I had to have it permanently. I worked in a nursing
home for 25 years, so this disease is not new to me. Thanks for writing the book. It's fabulous! I needed your help." V.B.
(Wisconsin)
"My cousin lost her husband to leukemia. She felt your book went beyond Alzheimer's and had good advice for anyone
whose loved one has a terminal illness." J.G. (Virginia)
"My mother has terminal cancer and my father is taking care of her at home. This book has been a great guide and reference
for her care. My mother does not have Alzheimer's, but my father and our family are encountering all the care issues that
a family must address when caring for a terminally ill family member at home. T.L. (Montana)
"This book has seemingly all the information that you need to be a successful caregiver for a loved one with Alzheimer's.
It is written in a very direct style. It addresses very specific solutions to the problems that occur as the various stages
of the disease progress. I took care of my mother before I read this book and I could have used the advice here. I would not
have had to reinvent the wheel, so to speak. The book acknowledges, but does not dwell on the emotional difficulties a caregiver
faces, but since it offers concrete solutions to all kinds of problems, using it as a reference can make the care giving experience
that much easier. Keep this one on the shelf, you'll refer to it often." T.T. (North Carolina)
"Magnificent work! It is bound to be helpful to anyone who has a family member or close friend with dementia. There is
a multitude of practical points. Anyone will be struck by your compassion and dedication to your wife. It is also good that
you admit how trying the whole process is."
M.P. (Florida)
"It's really a great job with a lot of valuable information and tips."
M.S. (Virginia)
"This is the first book on this subject that isn't clinical. I felt as if you were speaking directly to me. If I ever
get this dread disease, I hope I am treated that way [Care with dignity in the first Chapter]."
H.O. (Virginia)
"It has a lot of useful information and wonderful perspective in dealing with a loved one with Alzheimer's. I can already
see application and things we can do better for my mother-in-law who lives with us. Thank you."
B.B. (Maryland)
"Great book! Although I am already doing some of those things, I still learned a lot." (an experienced caregiver)
J.D. (Virginia)
"Just finished your wonderful book. It is very inspiring, but at the same time so full of practical knowledge about
home care. I ran a support group for families who were struggling with whether or not to 'home care' versus a nursing home.
Wish I had such a wonderful guide like yours. We have a large support group which meets at our church. This is a perfect handbook
for them."
A.R. (Georgia)
"I was greatly impressed. It should be very, very helpful to those in need of it."
N.K. (Virginia)
"I gave your information to a lady who is teaching a caregivers class at the community college. I suggested your book
to her as a textbook."
P.L. (Virginia)
"A friend of mine sent me your book as a gift. Such a wonderful gift too! I found your book to be most compelling!! I
would like to order 2 copies of the book signed by you so that I can donate them to my local Alzheimer's Chapter office and
share with other families. Thank you so much for taking the time to document and share your experiences. I found Chapter 1
to be very poignant. It is survival for both of us. And most definitely, there are times I feel isolated and hopeless. Yet,
as your words express, I too have found meditation and prayer help me in getting through the challenges. With the experiences
you have shared, it will make my journey less lonely and the challenges ahead feel more like opportunities. Again, Thank You!"
P.K. (North Carolina)
"My mother's companion was so thankful for your book that he called me directly upon reading the first chapter to thank
me for obtaining it for him. He took care of her right to the end, all by himself, and used your book for some pointers on
how to accomplish that."
K.K. (Virginia)
"The person I bought your book for has told me that it has been terribly helpful. You have done a tremendous service
for others to follow in your path."
J.D. (Maryland)
"Very interesting and informative. It is a significant work." D.W. (Washington, DC)
"How touched I was by your book. It conveys love and caring while at the same time being pragmatic about the challenges
and frustrations of Alzheimer's to both family and patient. The book paints a human picture." R.W. (New Hampshire)
"Thank you for sending those two books right away. I'm really impressed and just blown away with the amount of information
in the books. I've thought of someone else I want to send one to as a gift, so I'll be ordering another." S.S. (Virginia)
"How helpful! I was especially interested in day care."
P.O. (Virginia)
"Your book is so on target and written in such an easy format to read. This is the best book that I have read on the
subject. I will spread the word on your incredible book. Thank you for writing the info."
R.M. (Virginia)
"Your book was incredible. I couldn't put it down. I have ordered another copy for a couple at my church."
J.H. (Missouri)
"Your book will do a lot of good for a lot of people. I was inspired to call by the last chapter. Would you mind if I mentioned
your book on various blogs?"
C.J. (Oregon)
"I received your wonderful book from friends. The book has been a blessing in helping me cope with the progression of
my Dad's Alzheimer's. Thank you for writing the book."
T.W. (California)
"I have shared your book with my friend's father who is caring for his wife. Your book has been an inspiration to me
and so many others."
R.J. (Virginia)
"Your book is wonderful. Very helpful. My father is going through the same thing. I saw the article about you in
the newspaper. Thank you for writing the book."
L.R. (Virginia)
"Hope your book is selling well. It is excellent.
C.L (Virginia)
"I attend my local support groups and mention your book as one of the best."
P.K. (North Carolina)
"Your book is excellent. It will be the best resource for those on the journey of Alzheimer's or dementia care.
It's a tough road, but you have helped many, many along their way." D.O (Virginia)
"The information , experience, & insights you shared will be helpful to many caregiving families." A.H. (Virginia)
"Your book is a real asset for families and caregivers, especially for those just beginning to wrestle with the maze
of problems that must be faced. I am an advocate for your book and beat the drum for it. I have called it to the attention
of my support group. I have also recommended your book to individuals whom I know would benefit from it." W.S. (Maryland)
"I have spent some time with your book. You and the book are amazing." M.E. (Missouri)
